You can flag a shouldi or a response to any shouldi as inappropriate. You should flag an item if it contains offensive language, promotes violence, contains nudity, or infringes on another's copyrights or intellectual property.

When viewing shouldis or advice, you will see a green flag beside each item. Simply click on this flag to mark the item as inappropriate.

Users must be at least 13 years of age to join shouldi. Your profile may be deleted and your membership may be terminated without warning, if we believe that you are under 13 years of age. If you believe you have seen a user under 13 years of age on shouldi, please use the contact us link at the bottom of your shouldi home page. Please choose Report Abuse as the subject of your message and include the under age shouldi username in your message and we will remove the account after our investigation.

Please work with your child to log in to shouldi and remove the account. Once you are logged into shouldi, click on the my profile button on the top of the right sidebar. Clicking this button will take you to the About Me tab of your child's profile. At the bottom of this page, you will see a link titled cancel my membership. Click on this link to delete your child's shouldi account.

Please use the contact us link at the bottom of the shouldi home page or your my shouldi page. Please choose Report Abuse as the subject of your message and include the spammer's shouldi user name in your message and we will remove the spammer's account once we complete our investigation.

Please use the contact us link at the bottom of your shouldi home page. Please choose Report Abuse as the subject of your message and include the pretender's shouldi username in your message. Please change your password immediately. If possible, please also provide a URL to the user's profile page. We will look into the issue and take action according to our Terms of Use.